Wait for His Timing
Hey Y'all,
Even though today is supposed to be really depressing for those who are not in relationships, I have not allowed that to stop my joy. Honestly, today I find myself joyful! Yeah, some days it is hard not being in a relationship and not knowing when a guy will fall in my path... However, I am not going to allow that to make me feel down and depressed. I have spent too much of my life already worrying about when that time will come in my life and being sad that others are in relationships and I am not. I am done with that... I am done with feeling frustrated about being single. Right now is an amazing time in my life where I get to learn more about who God wants me to be and where my identity should be. I am learning to be content being single, even when others are in relationships. Honestly, I have been learning a lot. I have been learning to continually trust God and surrender my life to Him. I have been learning to work on my friendships and to grow in those amazing friendships that I have. I have been learning to praise God through the storms of life and when things are going well. And I am learning to grow my family relationships and trying to know that He has a purpose for all of those friendships and family relationships that I am building right now.
I am in no way trying to bash people who are in relationships. All I am trying to say is that for those who are single, ENJOY being single. Enjoy the time we get to spend with other friends, family, and other things in life. When you are in a relationship, you have so many other things to worry about and you will not be able to focus as much in other areas of life when in a relationship. So enjoy the time that God has for you in your single years and when He brings a relationship your way... Then enjoy it at that time. Do not rush it, just wait for the time to come. This is a reminder for even me... I am not perfect at waiting. Some days, it is extremely hard to wait for a relationship... But then I have to constantly remind myself that God has amazing timing! So please remember that!
Even though today is supposed to be really depressing for those who are not in relationships, I have not allowed that to stop my joy. Honestly, today I find myself joyful! Yeah, some days it is hard not being in a relationship and not knowing when a guy will fall in my path... However, I am not going to allow that to make me feel down and depressed. I have spent too much of my life already worrying about when that time will come in my life and being sad that others are in relationships and I am not. I am done with that... I am done with feeling frustrated about being single. Right now is an amazing time in my life where I get to learn more about who God wants me to be and where my identity should be. I am learning to be content being single, even when others are in relationships. Honestly, I have been learning a lot. I have been learning to continually trust God and surrender my life to Him. I have been learning to work on my friendships and to grow in those amazing friendships that I have. I have been learning to praise God through the storms of life and when things are going well. And I am learning to grow my family relationships and trying to know that He has a purpose for all of those friendships and family relationships that I am building right now.
I am in no way trying to bash people who are in relationships. All I am trying to say is that for those who are single, ENJOY being single. Enjoy the time we get to spend with other friends, family, and other things in life. When you are in a relationship, you have so many other things to worry about and you will not be able to focus as much in other areas of life when in a relationship. So enjoy the time that God has for you in your single years and when He brings a relationship your way... Then enjoy it at that time. Do not rush it, just wait for the time to come. This is a reminder for even me... I am not perfect at waiting. Some days, it is extremely hard to wait for a relationship... But then I have to constantly remind myself that God has amazing timing! So please remember that!
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